In my years as an Army wife, I have attended more military ceremonies than I can recall.
There’s a beauty to them, that I love.
Recently, I attended a ball for my husband’s unit.
I love standing beside him as he stands at attention, as he salutes, as he works his way through the ceremonial rituals.
“Ladies and Gentlemen, please stand as our Nation’s color’s are presented”.
I stand and wait for the cue of my husband because I know that he knows which way the flag will be brought in.
He turns to face the back of the room, standing at attention.
I turn, AND PLACE MY HAND OVER MY HEART.
We watch the flag enter with the color guard as the drums are rolling.
It’s beautiful, as it gently flutters in the breeze from being carried.
As it passes, we turn with it until it makes it’s way on stage and I stand there with MY HAND STILL OVER MY HEART.
And I keep it there until the presenting of the colors ceremony is finished.
I look around and I only see a handful of wives doing the same as me.
I gasped as I saw some of them talking!
HOW DARE YOU TALK DURING THAT!!!
YOUR HUSBAND LAYS HIS LIFE ON THE LINE FOR THAT FLAG!
AND IT’LL BE THE LAST THING YOU’RE HANDED IF HIS LIFE IS TAKEN DEFENDING IT.
So, please…please, please, please show some respect for your Nation’s Flag.
If it passes you in a parade: PUT YOUR HAND OVER YOUR HEART AND FOLLOW IT BY TURNING YOUR BODY AS IT PASSES AND DO NOT TALK.
If it is being presented or retired by the color guard: DO THE SAME THING LISTED ABOVE.
If you are unsure: AGAIN, DO THE SAME THING LISTED ABOVE.
And for further information concerning our NATION’S FLAG: click here.
Thank you for your time.